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Showing posts with label Learning. Show all posts

Friday, May 5, 2017

An Important Embrace

Let's Get Better

Do you want to get better? Would you like to be a better dancer? 

Here's the most important thing that you can do. 

Embrace the truth.

Embrace it - the whole truth. The ugly truth. The uncomfortable truth. The truth that you don't want to admit. The truth that you don't want anyone to know.


Be courageous. Be honest.

Embrace the truth about what's not working. - You can't fix something if you won't acknowledge it.

Embrace the truth about what you have been doing wrong, even if you once that that everything was fine.

Embrace the truth about your weaknesses. - Whether you have been dancing for three months or thirty years, you DO have weaknesses, and they're not invisible. Everyone can see them. You might as well give them a little practice time.


Be honest with yourself. Anything that you try to hide from will hold you back. So, why are you hiding?


If you want to improve, you'll need to invest time and energy on careful, mindful practice that targets specific weaknesses and areas where growth is desired. Before you can do that, you need to understand what to work on.


Hidden Dangers

What are the consequences of not facing and embracing the truth?

Wasted effort - How much progress will you make if you spend your time and effort (and money) on classes and pleasant social activities that don't address your fundamental needs? Ponder that one for a moment.

Unaddressed issues - Your weaknesses are weak for a reason. They are things that you don't do well naturally. You'll need to focus on them and work hard if you want to improve in these areas.

Unconscious incompetence - Let's talk about the 800-pound gorilla.

What if you're doing something so obviously wrong that everyone at the milonga notices it? Everyone except you, because you don't want to think that it's true. 

What if this publicly obvious problem is so flagrant that it discourages people from dancing with you? Wouldn't you want to fix that? Wouldn't you want to be aware of it so you can work on it and make progress? 


Coffee Shop

A baristas who used to work at my local coffee shop habitually wiped her nose with her hand while she was working. This behavior was a filthy, disgusting, and potentially a public health issue. 

Whenever I saw this lady behind the counter, I turned around and walked out of the store. I'd rather go to another coffee shop than expose myself to that.

I'm guessing that the woman was complete unaware of her unsanitary habit. 


What unconscious habits do you have, and how do you gain insight into them? What aspect of your tango technique are holding you back simply because you haven't consciously admitted them or come up with a plan to address them?

The best way to improve is to embrace the truth.


¡Buena suerte amigos, y muchas gracias!
Daniel

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Sunday, March 6, 2016

Pros and Cons of Teaching Sequences

"Just show me the steps!"

Most of the tango classes that I have taken over the years were structured around a sequence of steps and related movements. The teacher demonstrates the sequence at beginning of the class. Next, they'll show the first few steps in isolation so the students can attempt to replicate the movements. 

The students practice this section of the sequence by repeating it over and over with various partners. The teacher observes and offers corrections and clarifications. Their comments may include tips or an explanation of technical details that are important to executing the sequence. 

When the teacher feels that the students have made progress, they continue on to the next part of the sequence. This process continues until the end of the sequence is reached or until class time expires.


A Note On Terminology

Sequences are sometimes referred to as patterns, combinations, or simply steps. These terms are used interchangeably. I'll explain below in an appendix why I prefer to call them sequences.


Why Are Classes Structured This Way?

The simple answer is that this is what students expect. They want to learn a sequence of steps that they have never seen before. They feel that this is the best way for them to expand their dance vocabulary. (It's not, but that's another matter.) The students picture themselves performing the sequence at an upcoming milonga and hopefully gaining attention if they perform it well.

You can't fight the tide. Students expect to learn sequences, and if you don't give them what they want, eventually, they'll stop coming to class. Other topics, even important topics like musicality, simply won't hold the interest of the average student for very long.


The Pros of Learning Sequences

All hope is not lost. Sequences are effective teaching tools. A sequence provides a framework for introducing and discussing important techniques. When a technique is introduced in context, it's easier for the student to remember it.

A sequence also provides a framework for discussing musicality, floor craft, quality of movement, and other essential components of the dance.

A well-crafted sequence is an encapsulation of dance logic. As students repeat sequences, they absorb important techniques and concepts, even though they might not fully understand those concepts.

And, as mentioned, students expect to be taught sequences. They feel a sense of accomplishment when they can perform the sequence by the end of class. When the students are happy, they keep coming back and working on their dance technique. Obviously, it's not good for their progress if they get bored and stop coming to class.

Sequences are indispensable building blocks in the process of learning to dance. Learning a dance without studying useful sequences would be like learning a language without studying common phrases. But this highlights the limitation of sequences as a teaching method. A language student won't be able to converse fluently if their study is restricted to the memorization of phrases. They need to be able to adapt their responses dynamically to meet the demands of different situations. The same principle applies when learning to dance.


The Cons of Learning Sequences

A class where students repeat the same sequence over and over again can be particularly unpleasant for followers. Effective following requires the ability to react in the moment to unexpected variations in the lead. Repeating the same sequence for fifty-five minutes isn't helpful. 

A sequence-oriented class can provide followers with an opportunity to focus on technique. Even so, the value of repetition to followers is questionable. Can followers assimilate techniques effectively in an environment where the lead is predictable? In other words, will they be able to execute those techniques when they are following the leads of different partners at the milonga

The Argentine tango in its ideal state is improvised and unpredictable. Nothing in tango is more challenging than following an improvised lead. Classes should be structured in a way that supports the development of critical following skills. Sequence repetition falls short of this objective.


Let Them Eat Cake

If a sequence is an encapsulation of dance logic, how much of that logic can be learned through simple repetition?

Imagine that you sign up for a baking class. The teacher gives you a slice of cake at the beginning of class. It's delicious. Then they give you the recipe and help you to bake the same cake.

You feel happy. You learned how to do something that you weren't able to do before. But you learned only how to make that one cake. If you want to learn how to make something else, you'll have to take another class.

An experienced baker doesn't need a recipe to know how to make a different kind of cake. They can make dozens of kinds of cakes, including cakes that no one has ever created before. They can do this because they understand the basic principles of baking. 

(The baker still enjoys reviewing recipes from other bakers. They'll do this to pick up new ideas. But they don't depend on having someone show them how to bake things.)

Where do tango sequences come from? Is there a secret encyclopedia of tango movements that's off limits to social dancers? There is a historic tradition of choreography that performers have created over time. Some teachers present steps that they have seen in a performance. But in many cases, the teacher simply creates the sequence from a toolkit of fundamental components.

How does a skilled teacher create new steps on the fly, steps that students will pay to learn? The answer is simple. They understand the components better than the students do. 

Ah, but how did they develop this advanced understanding? And can the students develop it, too?

Most tango students beyond the beginner level can learn to understand the principles behind the workings of a tango sequence. Most students can learn enough to begin create not only their own sequences, but full, original choreography. Unfortunately, they're not likely to arrive at this level of understanding if all they do is repeat other people's movements. 

An advancement in understanding requires an extended period of analysis and experimentation. Students who simply show up to consume the step of the week aren't going to develop that level of understanding, no matter how many years of classes they take.


Alternatives to Sequence Memorization

Here are some alternative approaches that you can try with your students. They'll still be learning sequences in your classes, so hopefully you won't face an angry rebellion.

1. Variations on a Theme

Teach the sequence, but decide on at least one decision point where an alternative version can be introduced. Have the students alternate between versions. The leaders have to think in real time, and the followers have to pay attention and follow a lead that isn't entirely predictable.

For beginner and pre-intermediate students, I found it useful to develop a coded signal for the leaders. I could get them to lead a particular variation in real time without tipping off the followers. Those classes were always a lot of fun!

2. Super Sequence

Combine a few sequences that they already know into a longer sequence, a mini-choreography of sorts. It adds a degree of difficulty for both the leader and the follower, and students always seem to enjoy the experience. For more advanced classes, ask the leaders to mix sequences randomly. Just don't be surprised if they struggle with this. Again, you can develop a system of coded messages if you feel that the leaders would benefit from some interactive guidance.

3. Sequence On The Fly

Poll the class for ideas and make up a sequence using some or all of the elements that they suggest. This technique tends to generate lively discussions. Most importantly, it helps to demystify the sequence development process. Hopefully, some of the students will come away with the confidence to explore their own possibilities.  



Appendix on Terminology

Sequence, Combination, Pattern, Step - These terms are used interchangeably in the tango community. There's no right or wrong way to use these terms - People will usually understand what you mean by context. - Here, I am listing my own preferences for clarity.

I prefer the term "sequence" or "step sequence" because I feel that it describes the concept clearly.

Combination, to me, implies a combination of multiple sequences, like the "Super Sequence" that I mentioned above.

Pattern, to me, sounds more conceptual such as a rhythmic pattern of slow-slow-quick-quick steps in a molinete.

Steps, to me, are more fundamental, atomic movements. A forward step. A step to the side. A back cross step. A rock step. If find it confusing when people refer to an entire sequence as "the step." I find myself wondering, "which step?"



¡Buena suerte amigos, y muchas gracias!
Daniel

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Sunday, November 15, 2015

Wizards and Ogres - Part Three

As the wizard requested, the ogre pulled the tango dancer away from the edge of the bridge and placed him gently on his feet. The dancer was furious.

"Okay, I've had just about enough of this!"

"I understand," said the wizard calmly. "You're frustrated."

"Oh, I'm more than just frustrated! And I'm not answering any more questions!"

"Understood!" the wizard noted. "Now you are expressing anger. That is a natural and healthy emotional response to challenges."

"Challenges?" shouted the tanguero incredulously. "Is that what you call it? Being assaulted and hung over the edge of the bridge?"

"He didn't assault you."

"Yes he did! And then he nearly threw me into the river!"

"Well, that doesn't really happen," the wizard said. "Not very often, anyway."

"Well, whatever you want to call it - whatever game you two are playing - it just isn't right!"

"What isn't right?"

"Keeping me here against my will."

"We are not keeping you here," the wizard asserted.

"You mean that I'm free to go?" demanded the dancer.

"Well, not exactly."

"So you ARE keeping me here!"

"No, we are not keeping you here," said the wizard. "You are."

"You just said that I'm not free to go."

"And you assumed that we were the ones who were keeping you from progressing forward."

"This is crazy!" exclaimed the exasperated tango enthusiast.

"It is not crazy at all," explained the wizard. "You simply have not grasped the essential truth of your current situation. That is why we are here: to explain to you the natural order of things."

"The natural order of things?" the tango dancer asked coldly. "You mean that wizards and ogres are powerful, so they can push people around."

The wizard ignored the dancer's comment. "You said to us a moment ago that it wasn't right for us to hold you back."

"Yes. It's not right. It's unacceptable."

"Well then, would it be acceptable for us to let you proceed?"

"Why wouldn't it be?" demanded the dancer angrily.

"Because," answered the wizard, "as I mentioned, there is a natural order of things. And the natural order determines what we can and cannot do. A farmer cannot grow a crop in a week, no matter how hard he works in his fields. His efforts will be futile."

"What does that have to do with me?"

"You are progressing on your tango path," the wizard continued. "You have put in a good effort, and you have made significant progress. You should be proud of what you have accomplished thus far."

"Thank you ... I think."

"But your journey is like that of a mariner. When the mariner raises his sails, the wind pushes him forward. But that wind will not last forever. There will be times when he has to change the direction of his sails in order to keep going."

"So, you're telling me that in order to continue, I need to change something."

"Very good!" exclaimed the wizard. "You are catching on quickly!"

The wizard pointed toward the ogre. "Do you see my large friend here?"

"Yes," replied the tanguero. "We've met."

"The ogre is not here to harm you or discourage you. He is here to remind you that progress comes at a price. You are certainly willing to move forward on your tango path. But first you must pay the price."

"Okay, what price?"

"You must answer our question."

"Which one?" asked the dancer. "I mean, I'm not sure which one you're talking about now."

"We wanted you to tell us how you plan to overcome the limitations that you discussed with the first wizard."

"Oh, right."

"It is important to understand your limitations," the wizard continued, "but you also need to develop a plan to address them. Otherwise, the knowledge that you gained on the other side of the bridge will not serve your greater purpose of becoming a better dancer."

"Okay, I understand," said the tango enthusiast. "So, you're telling me that if I can come up with a plan to address my weaknesses, that I can move forward."

"That is exactly what I am saying. But it must be a plan based on an effective strategy. Continuing to do what you have done in the past is not an effective strategy. That's why the ogre reacted the way that he did."

"All right, I understand that," said the dancer. "And I did try to come up with some suggestions, but you didn't like any of them."

"Oh, that's not quite right," argued the wizard. "Actually, we hated them."

"Well, do you have any suggestions?"

"We are not the dancers," the wizard answered cryptically. "You are."

"So, you're telling me that I have to come up with the plan all by myself?"

"It will work best if you are the originator of the plan," explained the wizard. "If someone else comes up with the plan, you can dismiss it when it starts to become challenging. Then you'll wander off and look for someone who will tell you what you want to hear. That won't get you very far, I'm afraid."

"But how am I supposed to come up with a plan to address things that I don't know?" demanded the tanguero.

"Your plan can include consultations with experts, but ultimately, you are responsible. Think it through. Come up with some ideas for each of the weaknesses that the other wizard highlighted. What is the most sensible way to address each one? What steps would you take if you absolutely had to make progress?"

"But what if my plan doesn't work?"

"You'll need to evaluate your progress. If you're not reaching your goals, make adjustments to the plan and try again."

"And that's it?"

"Give us a high level plan now, and we'll send you on your way."

The tango enthusiast took a deep breath. "Okay, so for the technique and the quality of movement, I think I should practice specific movements until they become smoother. And I can use video to get feedback. Is that okay?"

The wizard looked toward the ogre for a second then turned back toward the tanguero. "I think so. He doesn't look angry."

"Okay, and for the musicality, I'm going to watch videos of good tango performances to get some ideas. And I'll set up a consultation with a teacher who specializes in this area."

"Very good!"

"Really?"

"Really."

"For improvisation, that's going to be tough," admitted the tango enthusiast. "I guess I'll start by combining the steps that I know in different ways. Maybe I'll write down sequences of steps in combinations that I haven't tried before and see if that helps."

"That sounds like a good start," said the wizard.

"As for the followers, I guess the main thing is to pay attention to them and make sure that they're comfortable. My embrace has to be comfortable and give them enough room to take their steps. I need to make sure that I'm always moving in time with the music. And I'll avoid steps that any particular lady struggles to follow."

"Excellent!" exclaimed the wizard.

"Is he happy?" asked the dancer nodding toward the ogre.

"Oh, he's never happy."

"I see."

"You have done well with this exercise," the wizard said proudly. "I wish you the best as you commit yourself to the work that you have outlined. If you follow your plan, I am confident that you will make excellent progress."

"Thank you," said the tanguero. "Now that I know what you were trying to do, well, I'm sorry about some of the things that I said."

"No matter!" said the wizard. "Let me just leave you with one parting thought. 

"This is not the last ogre that you will encounter along your tango path. The ones that you meet in the future will be just as merciless and uncompromising as the ones that you met today. They will demand a price from you. If you attempt to move forward without paying that price, they will knock you down and frustrate you. And hear me well - an ogre never tires of giving out punishment.

"When you meet the ogres in your future, resist the natural inclination to become frustrated. Instead, stop. Take your time. Assess the situation. Think carefully about what is being asked of you in that moment, and focus all of your concentration on devising a solution. The solution doesn't have to be perfect, but it must be rational, and it must and show promise. If the ogre doesn't like your solution, he will not let you pass. 

"You can't barter with an ogre. You can't cheat. You can't charm him, you can't trick him, and you can't argue your way past him without paying the price that he specifies. There are no shortcuts on your tango path. But there are infinite magical possibilities waiting for you ... if you're willing to work for them."




¡Buena suerte amigos, y muchas gracias!
Daniel

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Friday, November 13, 2015

Wizards and Ogres - Part Two

After a contentious exchange with a wizard and an ogre, the tango traveler crossed the foggy river. As he reached the other side of the bridge, he was greeted by a second wizard and an even more frightening ogre.

"Oh, good grief!" the dancer thought to himself. "Not again!"

"Stop!" commanded the wizard. "We have been waiting for you!"

"Um, yeah!" the tanguero said cautiously. "I, um... I already talked to the guy on the other side..."

"Wonderful!" the wizard exclaimed. "If you have made it this far, I have the utmost confidence that you now possess a clear understanding of your limitations."

"Yes, very clear!" the tango enthusiast agreed, nodding his head. He thought to himself: "This is a nightmare!" 

"Excellent! So, why don't we begin by reviewing what you learned on the other side? It will be good for your memory and your concentration."

The tango dancer took a deep breath. "Okay."

"Go ahead when you're ready," the wizard encouraged him. "And please be sure not to leave anything out. The other wizard sent me a full report on my iPad."

"What is it with you wizards and your iPads?" the tango enthusiast asked incredulously.

"We like iPads," beamed the wizard. "They're magical!"

"Yeah, whatever!" muttered the dancer. "Anyway, what I learned on the other side: Okay, I learned that my technique is a little sloppy in places, and I have to work on my quality of movement."

"Good!" the wizard said gleefully. "What else?"

"I need to work on becoming a better improvisor."

"Okay..."

"I have to find some way to understand music better. And I have to figure out how associate it with my movements. I think that's probably my biggest weakness."

"Well, it's good that you realize that."

"And of course, there are a some advanced techniques that I still need to learn, but the other guy didn't seem to think that they were very important."

"That's fine," the wizard assured him. "Anything else?"

The tanguero thought carefully about how to phrase the last item on his list. 

"I learned that the most important thing of all - especially when I'm at a milonga - is to make sure that whatever follower I'm dancing with has a good time. Even if she's not a good dancer, I have to figure out a way to make our time together meaningful and give her a tanda that makes her happy."

"Excellent!" shouted the wizard as he smiled brightly. "You have gained great insight!"

"Thank you," the tanguero responded cautiously. Even the ogre seemed to be pleased, or at least not as intimidating as he had seemed from the bridge. But the dancer wasn't about to take any chances.

"Now then," the wizard announced. "We do have something to discuss with you."

"Oh boy!" thought the dancer. "I hope this goes better than the last time."

"Tell us," said the wizard, "how you intend to improve upon the weaknesses that you just mentioned."

The tanguero hesitated. "I haven't really had time to think this through."

"Take all the time that you need," the wizard said. "We may even be able to help you."

"Okay," said the dancer. "Well, I guess maybe I should take some more private lessons."

He was startled when the ogre let out a growl.

"What's that?"

"What's what?" asked the wizard.

"Why did he growl?"

"Perhaps he didn't like your answer."

"Why didn't he like my answer? I mean, if I want to improve, I should take more lessons, right?"

"Perhaps," mused the wizard. "If you can find a teacher who is willing to develop a course of study that targets your individual deficiencies, and if you can commit to working with that teacher over the course of several months, then yes, lessons will be helpful.

"But if you go to someone who just teaches you a step for an hour - and then you forget that step in a few weeks, which is probably what will happen - that isn't going to advance you very far."

"Okay," said the dancer. "I see your point."

"What other approaches might you try?" asked the wizard.

"Well, I'm hoping to go to some tango festivals this year. I think that might be a good learning experience."

The ogre growled more loudly this time.

"What is it with him? He's growling again."

"He's growling for a reason," said the wizard. "That might not be the best course of action in your case."

"Are you telling me that I won't learn anything at a tango festival?"

"Oh, quite the contrary!" insisted the wizard. "One can learn many things at a tango festival. You'll be exposed to new ideas and new teaching styles. You'll have the chance to dance with a host of new partners. All of that could be helpful in some way."

"So, what's the problem?" the tango enthusiast demanded. 

"The problem is that your deficiencies are not caused by a lack information. They are rooted in your inability to fully utilize information that you already have attained."

"Okay. I guess I can see your point."

"You'll need to dedicate yourself to improvement over time," the wizard explained. "A weekend festival goes by so quickly. It will be enjoyable, certainly. It probably will be interesting. The material and the ambience may inspire you. But spending one weekend going to workshops and milongas is not going to help you address your fundamental limitations."

"Okay," said the tanguero. "Well, I already take classes twice a week, and I go to milongas on the weekend when I can. I guess I'll just keep doing that and try to improve over the long run."

The ogre lunged forward suddenly and grabbed him. "Wait! Put me down!" screamed the terrified dancer. But the ogre refused put him back on the ground. Instead, he flipped the man upside down and dangled him over the railing of the bridge by one leg.

"Put me down!" the dancer screamed. "You people are CRAZY!"

"I would caution you not to make him more angry than he already is," warned the wizard. "I have seen him throw people into that river; sometimes they don't come back out."

"Come on! Put me down! PLEASE!"

"He'll put you down in a moment. But first I want you to think about something."

"Are you nuts? I can't think about something while I'm upside down!"

"Well, think about this. How are you going to improve if you keep doing the same things that you have been doing all along?"

"I don't know! Oh my goodness! Just put me down!" 

"It's okay," the wizard said to the ogre. "You may set him down. And please do so gently! I would like to talk with our friend a bit. We'll see if he can come up with some better ideas now that inversion therapy has had a chance to refresh his perspective."






¡Buena suerte amigos, y muchas gracias!
Daniel

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Thursday, November 12, 2015

Wizards and Ogres - Part One

Know Thyself - Even If It's Painful

A tango enthusiast was enjoying the progress that he was making along his unique path through learning the dance. He studied every week. He practiced whenever he could. He went to milongas as often as was practical. 

Along the way he discovered a deep love for the tango and for the social world that surrounded it. He enjoyed discussing technique with his fellow dancers. He relished spending time in the embrace of sensitive followers as they moved together to beautiful music. He derived a great deal of satisfaction from learning new and challenging material.

One day, as the tanguero was working his way along his normal path, he arrived at a bridge. At the entrance to the bridge stood a bearded wizard and a huge, hideous ogre.

"Stop!" commanded the wizard. "We have been waiting for you!"

"What do you want?" asked the somewhat confused dancer.

"We have an important question to ask you."

"Okay, what do you want to know?"

"Do you understand your limitations?" the wizard asked cryptically.

"You mean, in tango?" the dancer asked.

"Yes, your tango limitations," the wizard clarified. "Do you understand what you'll need to work on in order to move forward from this point?"

The tango enthusiast thought for a moment. "Well, I want to learn volcadas and colgadas. I haven't had a chance to study those yet, because where I study, they only do them in the advanced class. And back sacadas. Hopefully, I'll be moving up to those classes soon."

Suddenly, the ogre lunged forward and gave the enthusiast a shove so forceful that it knocked him off his feet and sent him rolling along the ground.

"What was that for?" the enthusiast demanded as he climbed back to his feet and dusted himself off.

"Your answer was not satisfactory!" scolded the wizard.

"But I told you what I didn't know."

"Think harder!" commanded the wizard.

"Okay, um, well, I took a class in musicality once, but I didn't really understand what the teacher was trying to get us to do. So, I guess I'll have to work on that."

"Do you even understand what musicality means?"

"Not really."

The ogre roared and lunged toward the dancer again. The wizard intervened just in time to prevent another attack. 

"You are making him angry!" warned the wizard. "You need to tell us the TRUTH."

"I did tell you the truth," pleaded the enthusiast.

"You didn't tell us everything," the wizard said. "Think harder!"

The tanguero was clearly shaken and was having trouble concentrating.

"Maybe this will help," said the wizard as he pulled an iPad out of his robe. "We have some video of you dancing at a recent milonga. Observe! Tell us what you see!"

"Um, okay, well, I guess it's not too flashy, but I don't know that many steps yet."

"You don't have to worry about steps if you are improvising," the wizard stated. "Are you improvising here?"

"A little," admitted the tanguero. "I'm not really good at it yet."

"I see!" exclaimed the wizard. "What about quality of movement?"

"Uh, I look kind of stiff," answered the tango enthusiast.

"I see! What about technique?"

"Well, it looks fine on some steps, but it's definitely awkward in other places."

"Aha!" exclaimed the wizard. "Now we're getting somewhere!"

"Can I go now?" asked the clearly frightened tanguero.

"Just one more question," said the wizard. "Look at the follower. Does she look as though she is enjoying her dance with you?"

"Mmm, no, she looks kind of detached," admitted the dancer.

"She doesn't look happy?" asked the wizard.

"Not OVERLY happy ... I guess."

"And why is that?"

"Well, I remember her," recalled the dancer. "She wasn't very good."

The ogre howled and tossed the man to the ground more forcefully than the first time.

"Why wasn't this follower happy?" demanded the wizard.

"I ... I honestly don't know," admitted the now very sore tanguero.

"Yes, you don't know," repeated the wizard. "And that is the entire point of our discussion today. Here you are, parading through tango land like some privileged prince, thinking that everything is going well. You don't even understand the most basic elements and responsibilities of tango.

"You don't have good technique. You don't appreciate quality of movement. You don't understand music. You don't know how to improvise effectively. And worst of all, not only are you incapable of treating a follower to an enjoyable tanda, you don't even recognize when you have failed them!

"So, I'll ask you one more time: Why wasn't this follower happy?"

"I ... I'm not sure," admitted the dazed and desperate dancer as he picked himself up off of the ground for the second time. "I dance with other ladies, and everything is fine. It just wasn't very easy with this one."

"I strongly advise that you not anger my large friend here with talk like that!"

"Well, what am I supposed to do?" asked the tango enthusiast crossly. "Dance with every follower?"

"Yes!" cried the wizard. "When you ask a woman to dance with you, you take responsibility for her and for what happens to her on the dance floor. When she accepts your invitation, she puts her trust in you. Remember that she arrived with the same love for tango that YOU feel. Taking care of her - and reinforcing her love for the dance - that is all that you ever need to do. 

"You won't need colgadas to make a follower happy. You don't need to impress her with back sacadas or fancy combinations. You need to make sure that she feels better after her dances with you than she did when she accepted your invitation. And guess what? You FAILED! This is your one and only responsibility when you are at the milonga, and you failed."

"Okay! I get it," said the dancer. "I understand."

"What do you understand?"

"I understand my weaknesses."

"Well, that's good!" the wizard exclaimed cheerfully. "Then, you may proceed!"

"I can go?" asked the dancer as he warily eyed the ogre.

"Yes," replied the wizard. "And perhaps you should hurry before he becomes angry with you once again."

The dancer walked cautiously past the wizard and the ogre and began to cross the bridge. He had to make his way slowly, however, because dense fog was rising up off of the river below. Eventually, the fog thinned, and he was able to see the far side of the bridge. There, waiting for him, stood another wizard, and an even bigger ogre.

"Stop!" commanded the wizard. "We have been waiting for you!"






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Daniel

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Thursday, September 10, 2015

Get To Class Early

Why You Can't Make Up For Lost Time

This is a simple idea. Get to class on time. Better yet, get there ahead of time so you can be warmed up and focused and ready when the instructor starts the lesson.

So, why would I bother writing about such a mundane topic? Because it's important. I'll explain why in a moment.


A Widespread Problem

Have you ever noticed people rushing into the classroom or dance studio at the last minute? Have you ever seen people changing their shoes, checking messages, chatting, or socializing while the instructor is already presenting material? This happens a lot.

Sometimes students arrive after the class has already started - five, ten, fifteen minutes late - maybe more. This isn't unusual either.


Time Pressure

Hey, I get it. I understand. We're all busy. Some of us attend classes after work. It's not always easy to depart from your place of business or finish a meeting with a client in time to arrive early for an extracurricular activity.

We may have families and children to manage amongst other responsibilities. It's not easy to leave your loved ones when they're dealing with some minor crisis. (Of course, if it's a major crisis, just stay home. You can catch up on the material another time. Devoting time to your family when they need you is a no-brainer.)

Traffic delays are common. Public transportation doesn't always run on time. The weather can slow everything down. That, plus your dog probably ate your homework.


The Importance Of Being Punctual 

Classes and workshops tend to follow a progressive flow. This won't be true in every instance or with every teacher, but in my experience, this is how most classes are run. 

What do I mean by following a progressive flow? Teachers present material, concepts, and/or exercises in the first few minutes of class with the expectation that they will build on this material as the class moves forward.

In order to build on the material that's introduced in the first few minutes, the students have to be ready to absorb and work on that material. People who are chatting or rushing to put on their shoes won't be fully focused. The guy who arrives seven minutes late because "traffic was horrible" won't see the exposition of the material, and he won't have a chance to practice the first exercise or two enough to make sense of it.

That's the problem. What can we do about it?


Making Up For Lost Time

Let's talk about those late arrivers for a moment. How can we manage them?

Option 1 - Explain and demonstrate the material all over again when the late people arrive. 

This means that the rest of the class has to wait for the late arrivers to catch up instead of moving on to more material that they (the on-time people) are now ready to handle. 

Even if we do explain and demonstrate the material for the later arrivers, they won't have enough time to assimilate it as the rest of the class moves forward. They'll feel frustrated. This problem multiplies itself if even more people arrive even later.

Option 2 - Let the on-time students practice for a song or two while you take time out to explain things to the late arrivers.

At best, this will be challenging. You're going to be explaining things to them in the corner of the room while the rest of the class is busy doing something else.

 You won't be able to give the on-time students as much focus as they deserve, because the late arrivers now demand your focus. And the late arrivers still won't have enough time to practice the material before moving on.

Option 3 - Just move forward. Focus your energy and attention on the people who were committed to arriving on time. If the late arrivers can't catch up, they can repeat the class or schedule a private lesson in order to catch up. 

Of course, they're going to be annoyed. They paid the same price for the class as the on-time students, and they expect to walk away with an understanding of the material. They don't see any reason why you can't take time out to catch them up on the material. (At least, they didn't until they read Options 1 and 2 above.) 

They don't want to pay extra money for an hour of lessons just so you can show them something that you explained five minutes ago. And you know what? They have a point. If you overlook the needs of your latecomers more than a few times, and they'll leave your school and look for instruction elsewhere.

The important idea is that it's not possible to make up for lost time in a way that will work effectively for everyone. Students need to be present and ready from the beginning of the class if they want to get the most out of the material. If someone arrives even a little bit late, it's not possible to straighten that out without inconveniencing someone. It's that simple.


Being There

I understand this problem from all sides. I have a habit of running late, and I was never terribly punctual about getting to my tango classes. At the time, I didn't realize the kind of problems that this could cause. So, I'd like to apologize to my teachers for being a pain in the ass.

My perspective changed when started teaching. I realized quickly how challenging it is to catch the late people up on the material when the early people are ready to move forward. It's not a fun situation for anyone.

That said, in the four years that I taught tango classes, I was late only one time - and by "late" I mean that I walked into the studio at the time that the class was due to start. I needed to take a couple of extra minutes in order to change my shoes and use the restroom before starting the class. Luckily, this happened only once. 

I made it a point to arrive at my classes early. I made it a point to be there well in advance of the arrival of my students, to be focused and ready to go when they were. I factored in likely delays due to traffic and weather, so I was rarely surprised by a delay that I couldn't manage. It's possible to be on time or ahead of time EVERY time if you commit yourself to it.

It is worth the effort? Yes, and not just because it makes things easier for your teacher. It will make things easier for you. We learn better when we don't feel stressed or hurried. 

If you pay for a one hour class or a two-hour workshop, why not get the most out of that time? Why put yourself through the stress of trying to catch up when you can simply be there from the beginning, see all of the demonstrations, and participate in all of the exercises?

No matter who your teacher is, make sure that you arrive on time for class. You'll get so much more out of the experience.

And remember what they say: "Five minutes early, is five minutes late."



¡Buena suerte amigos, y muchas gracias!
Daniel

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Sunday, April 19, 2015

Talent, Effort and Dedication

How Far Will They Take You?

Occasionally, someone compliments me by remarking that I am a talented photographer. I accept comments like this graciously and enthusiastically - it's always nice when someone appreciates my work. But I realize that talent isn't what made me a photographer.  

For most of my life, I was a casual snap-shooter. I took bad photographs for decades. When I look back over my albums from those years, I don't see much evidence of talent shining through. 

After seeing some awe-inspiring photo exhibits, I came to realize that cameras could do a lot more than I thought. There was more to photography than the faded, poorly composed rubbish that I was picking up regularly at my neighborhood drugstore.

Eventually, I dedicated myself to becoming a serious photographer. I felt a burning desire to make photos like the ones that had impressed me in those shows. I dedicated time to learning everything that I could about cameras and the photographic process. But even as I was learning and developing skills, I still made lots of bad photos.

Talent didn't make me a photographer. Work and honest self-evaluation were the most critical factors in my development. I took lots of photos, rated my progress, devised new approaches, and went out and shot some more. Over and over and over again. Over time, I learned a lot and improved my skills in the process.


The Diamond Under The Mountain

I have met people with a real talent for photography, people who have impressed me with a natural gift for composition or a sense for finding fascinating subjects. Some of these folks have impressive portfolios. Some have modest portfolios that show untapped promise. And some are casual snap-shooters who upload mostly unimpressive photos to social media on occasion. 

All of these people have talent, but only some of them have achieved impressive results. The difference is in the effort and determination that they have committed toward achieving those results.

Talent is potential. Exceptional talent will let someone achieve more in the same amount of time or with the same amount of effort. But without effort, that talent will remain unfulfilled. Talent is a diamond buried under a mountain. You'll have to dig deep before you can access its full value.


Limitations

A lack of talent does enforce some limitations. Most people will never compete in a professional sporting event or sing on stage at a famous opera house. The people who make it to that level all have extraordinary talent. But talent didn't put them on the stage or the playing field. Top performers typically dedicate countless hours toward developing and maximizing their talent. 

A person with average talent can achieve impressive results by committing themselves to hard work and a plan for making the best of the abilities that they have. Maybe they won't discover a diamond under their personal mountain, but they'll find other beautiful and valuable assets. In many cases, their lives will be more fulfilling for having put in the effort.


A Weakness Exposed

I have been blessed with some degree of talent, and I am thankful for all that those talents have enabled me to achieve. But there are plenty of areas in my life where I lack talent to an embarrassingly painful degreed.

A lack of scholastic talent emerged as a critical weakness when I went to college (university, for international readers). It wasn't just that I struggled to get good grades. I plunged into a downward spiral that led to some of the most difficult and disappointing years of my life.  

I read very slowly. It takes me three to six weeks to read an average-sized novel. I know people who can finish the same book in an evening or two. 

That might not sound like a big problem, but it became a serious disadvantage when I started studying at the university level. I struggled to complete assignments, I fell desperately behind semester after semester, and my grades were horrible. Not just bad - horrible! I was frustrated, exhausted, depressed, ashamed, and I felt utterly hopeless. I feared that I would never earn a degree, and I had no idea what I could do to reverse the damage.

With each new semester, I resolved to do better, to study harder, but I still struggled. In fact, things got worse. Much worse.

Finally, after it seemed that all hope of ever getting through college was lost, I had a breakthrough. I resolved to do whatever it took to earn good grades and complete my degree. 

I scheduled as many hours of study time as I could find available each week, and I wouldn't let these periods be skipped or interrupted. I found the quietest places on campus and spent hours there every day (effectively hiding) in order to avoid distraction. In my notebooks, I paraphrased every paragraph that I read as I was reading it. I imagined myself standing before a classroom full of students, explaining the material. I needed to understand every concept and every detail in order to avoid looking like a fool.

I didn't gain any scholastic talent overnight. The Learning Fairy didn't cast a magic spell on me. My reading pace was still ponderously slow. 

But by refining my approach to studying in a way that compensated for my weaknesses, I went from being an academic embarrassment to getting A's in three-fourths of my classes. I completed my degree, and I went on to have a long, successful career in a field where continuous learning is demanded.

Those speedy readers obviously have more talent than I do in this area. I doubt that I could ever survive in law school or medical school - which is just fine, because they would never accept me anyway. But I was able to find a way to overcome my academic weaknesses. The dedication and effort required were significant, but it did prove to be possible. 

Desire and commitment and hard work can move anyone forward toward any dream. If you have talent, you'll be able to go a little farther, but you're still going to have to work hard to get there. If you don't have a lot of talent, you can still do many of the things that you dream of doing. 

Never let a perceived lack of talent discourage you. Maybe you don't lack talent at all; you might need to try something different in order to develop your unique potential. Keep working at it. Keep trying new approaches. Good things are waiting for you. There are diamonds hiding under the mountain, but it will take work to find them.


¡Buena suerte amigos, y muchas gracias!
Daniel

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